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Family Harmony and Love

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Also known asgriha kleshhusband wife disputeslovejhagda

Remedies, methods and rules

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Seven Sea-Salt Lumps Usara of the Main Door

Standing outside, circle seven lumps of sea salt clockwise in front of the main door while the right nostril is active, throw the negativity out and discard the salt. Given as a great brahmastra, it brings relief from quarrels and unrest within 24 hours.

Outside the main door

Questions and answers

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Our house has a badly polluted North with a bathroom, and the family faces many problems and quarrels. How can it be corrected?

The North must be corrected and the land energy improved. Where the energy is good, any defects present give only about half their bad results. Household quarrels (grih klesh) are natural while such defects remain.

A house has its entry in the Agni kon (South-East), an underground water tank in the South-East with the stairs over it, and the slope running to the South. The family fights constantly. What is the remedy?

Either leave the house or treat it: close the South-East underground water tank immediately and correct the slope. The staircase can stay. An overhead tank in the South-East is acceptable.

If the Brahmasthan is kept open on the ground floor, should the same area be kept open on every upper floor?

Keeping it open on all floors is excellent. If that is not possible, a double height open at the Brahmasthan, for example about 20 ft, still balances the space element even if it is closed above. A survey found that houses with a double height at the Brahmasthan had more happiness and peace.

Why do even small children argue with their parents nowadays?

Every house used to have ventilators at the top of the walls, which balanced the air element. They have been brought down into the windows, and since the ventilator location changed even a ten-year-old child argues back. Keep the air element balanced with proper doors, windows, top ventilation and cross-ventilation.

Shikhi gives clear vision in a house; if family members are lazy, do no work and lack clear vision, is that the same dosh?

Yes, that is the same Shikhi dosh: when Shikhi is defective, the minds of the residents stay blocked.

How can yellow mustard help a couple heading for divorce who have lived apart for over a year?

Write both names on gomti chakra, at least five of them, and put them with about 125 g of energised yellow mustard in a potli. Whoever wants the relationship keeps it under their mattress and every day gives the command that the partner has come back and is on the bed. This brings back friendly behaviour.

A consultant had 2.5 kg of yellow mustard kept under a bed in the South-West; a year later dowsing showed strong negativity and there were daily quarrels. Can yellow mustard create negativity?

Yellow mustard that was washed, energised and commanded cannot give negativity. Mustard simply bought from the market and placed without purification and command does not work, even a ton of it in a shop, and it may bring negativity from wherever it came. Incomplete knowledge is very dangerous.

In the case where all four family members had a weak Sun, why would four separate kundlis show the same pattern?

Members of one family almost always have nearly the same planetary placements; there is a symmetry among their charts, and that is why they are born into the same family. In that case the Sun was badly placed in all four charts, so the East-facing house harmed the whole family.

If one family member has a planet exalted and another has it debilitated, should that planet's items be kept in the interior?

Decide room by room. In your own bedroom use the materials of your exalted planet and not of your debilitated one; your daughter's bedroom is designed from her kundli. The house facing and common areas such as the drawing room and kitchen are decided from the grih swami's kundli. Many people make the master bedroom in the South-West by default, which is wrong when Rahu is debilitated: such people suffered there and got very good results after moving to another direction.

If a person sits in the South-East for long periods, will their nature change?

Yes. Sitting a lot in the South-East, the fire zone, increases aggressiveness and irritation.

A couple sleeps in the SW; one has an exalted Rahu and the other a debilitated Rahu. Can they sleep there?

Yes. After marriage, as in the hathleva ritual, the planets of one partner overlap the other, and the exalted planet's influence prevails.

What happens if the kitchen is in the North-North-West?

A kitchen in the North-North-West brings quarrels between husband and wife and discord (klesh) in the home; this has been seen in many houses.