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Family Harmony and Love

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Remedies, methods and answers for this goal, with the samagri, places and timings they use.
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Also known asgriha kleshhusband wife disputeslovejhagda

Remedies, methods and rules

Principle

Whose Kundli to Use: Owner for Facing, Each Member for Their Own Room

The house facing, main door and common areas are chosen from the grih swami's (owner's) kundli, while each member's bedroom and study are planned from that member's own kundli.

House facing, main door, drawing room, kitchen, bedrooms and study rooms

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Basis of Interior Planning: Goal, Kundali, Current Flow and Planet Yogas

Before any interior, fix the goal of the space, study the owner's kundali, check the current (energy) flow and base every arrangement, colour and artifact on planet combinations. Harmful yogas of the kundali must never be recreated with artifacts, while good yogas should be built.

Whole interior of a home, shop or factory

Principleचित्र से चित्त

Chitra se Chitta: Pictures and Portraits at Home Shape Emotions

Interior vastu is emotion and action controlled by the interior: what the eye sees daily at home changes the mind. Pictures of God and loving family scenes bring good thoughts, while vulgar, violent or sorrowful images change emotions at once.

Living areas and rooms of the house

Principleसांगोपांग

Full-Length Family Photos and Whole-Body Statues, No Close-Ups or Cut Figures

Family photos at home should show the whole family complete from head to feet, with no hand or foot cut, and statues or idols should show the full body. Close-up face photos and cut or bust figures bring trouble.

Family photos, statues and idols anywhere in the house

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Planet Strength Checks Before Assigning Bedroom Zones

A bedroom zone is chosen by the occupant's planets: an exalted planet makes its zone favourable and a debilitated one makes it harmful. Key checks are Sun for East, Venus for SE, Mars for South, Rahu-Ketu for SW, Saturn for West, Moon for NW, Mercury for North and Jupiter for NE.

Bedrooms in every zone

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South-South-West Zone (Expenditure and Wastage): Toilet and Waste Zone

In SSW the Sun's energy is burnt out and its composition destroyed, so this is the zone of expenditure and wastage, where waste activities belong. It is the main zone for a toilet, dustbin and storage of useless goods.

South-South-West zone of the house

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South-West Zone (Relationship and Stability): What to Build and Avoid

From about 4 to 4:30 pm the Sun reaches SW and the energy begins to cool and stabilise the mind; it strengthens relationships and skills, motivates hard work and gives stability to every work. It suits bedroom, drawing room, tijori and heavy items, subject to Rahu-Ketu checks.

South-West zone of the house

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Staircase as Mercury: Significance and Effects of Wrong Placement

Stairs represent Mercury (Budh), the planet that lifts people up and gives success in business; they join underground energy with cosmic energy. Wrongly placed stairs stall business, obstruct children's education and spoil relations with sisters, daughters and paternal aunts.

Staircase

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Dining Area Effects in Each of the 16 Zones

West is the ideal dining zone because Varun gives coolness and taste; WSW, North, NNE, East, SSE and South also support eating, while ESE, SE, SSW and WNW disturb it.

Best: West. Very good: WSW, North, NNE, NE, East, ENE. Good: SSE, South. Moderate: SW, NW, NNW. Avoid: ESE, SE, SSW, WNW.

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Drawing Room Effects in Each of the 16 Zones

East is the ideal drawing room zone, North suits business talks and the NE gives peace, while the SE, SSW and WNW are poor; a room energised with crystallised quartz can work almost anywhere.

Best: East. Good: North, NNE, NE, ENE, NNW, West, WSW, South (not too open). Moderate: SSE, SW, NW. Poor: ESE, SE, SSW, WNW.

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Drawing Room Interior: Rectangular Seating, North Facing, Light Colours

The drawing room is the place for exchanging ideas, so its furniture is set in a square or rectangle, the person putting forward his views faces North, the colours are light and windows give cross-ventilation.

Drawing room (swagat kaksh, the room for receiving guests)

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Placement of Ancestor and Family Photos

Photos of departed ancestors go in the South-West, but never inside a bedroom; family photos of the living go anywhere except the South and SSW zones, on a wall where their faces look North.

Ancestors: South-West, outside the bedroom. Family photos: South wall, not in the South or SSW zones

Principleउत्तर दिशा के द्वार पद

North Door Padas N1 to N8 and Their Results

In the North, N3 brings sons and wealth, N4 (Bhallat) is the best of all 32 doors with windfall wealth, and N5 gives wealth with dharma and fame. N1, N2, N6, N7 and N8 bring suffering, enemies, family stress, faults in women and poverty.

Main door on the North side, from the North-West corner to the North-East corner

Principle

Sleep Belongs to Saturn: Why the Bedroom Suits the South-West or South

Sleep is an activity of Saturn; Saturn is a friend of Rahu-Ketu, who rule the South-West, and the South is the seat of Yama, so sleeping in the South-West or South is recommended, while sleeping in the East is not.

South-West or South

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Trees to Keep Away from the Home: Peepal, Banyan, Tamarind, Pakad, Ber and More

Peepal, banyan, tamarind and pakad must never stand inside the house premises, and date palm, pomegranate, banana and ber also harm the household. A tree whose shadow falls on the house beyond the first and last prahar of the day causes trouble.

House premises and surroundings

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Venus (South-East) Interior: Pink, Light Green, Pyramid, Sword, Curtains, Shine

The South-East belongs to Venus. Its interior uses pink and light green, amethyst or blue sapphire, a pyramid and a sword for fire, kitchen-garden sceneries, fine curtains, decoration, toys and shining items, and Venus plants.

South-East; curtains and decor throughout the home

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Family Photo Rules: Full Figures, Smiling Faces Turned North

A family photo should show everyone full length with smiling faces, and the faces of the living must turn to the North, the living direction; NNW suits family attraction, but the direction the faces look matters more than the wall.

Any wall (NNW suits family attraction) as long as the faces look North

Questions and answers

All 17 questions
Our house has a badly polluted North with a bathroom, and the family faces many problems and quarrels. How can it be corrected?

The North must be corrected and the land energy improved. Where the energy is good, any defects present give only about half their bad results. Household quarrels (grih klesh) are natural while such defects remain.

A house has its entry in the Agni kon (South-East), an underground water tank in the South-East with the stairs over it, and the slope running to the South. The family fights constantly. What is the remedy?

Either leave the house or treat it: close the South-East underground water tank immediately and correct the slope. The staircase can stay. An overhead tank in the South-East is acceptable.

If the Brahmasthan is kept open on the ground floor, should the same area be kept open on every upper floor?

Keeping it open on all floors is excellent. If that is not possible, a double height open at the Brahmasthan, for example about 20 ft, still balances the space element even if it is closed above. A survey found that houses with a double height at the Brahmasthan had more happiness and peace.

Why do even small children argue with their parents nowadays?

Every house used to have ventilators at the top of the walls, which balanced the air element. They have been brought down into the windows, and since the ventilator location changed even a ten-year-old child argues back. Keep the air element balanced with proper doors, windows, top ventilation and cross-ventilation.

Shikhi gives clear vision in a house; if family members are lazy, do no work and lack clear vision, is that the same dosh?

Yes, that is the same Shikhi dosh: when Shikhi is defective, the minds of the residents stay blocked.

How can yellow mustard help a couple heading for divorce who have lived apart for over a year?

Write both names on gomti chakra, at least five of them, and put them with about 125 g of energised yellow mustard in a potli. Whoever wants the relationship keeps it under their mattress and every day gives the command that the partner has come back and is on the bed. This brings back friendly behaviour.

A consultant had 2.5 kg of yellow mustard kept under a bed in the South-West; a year later dowsing showed strong negativity and there were daily quarrels. Can yellow mustard create negativity?

Yellow mustard that was washed, energised and commanded cannot give negativity. Mustard simply bought from the market and placed without purification and command does not work, even a ton of it in a shop, and it may bring negativity from wherever it came. Incomplete knowledge is very dangerous.

In the case where all four family members had a weak Sun, why would four separate kundlis show the same pattern?

Members of one family almost always have nearly the same planetary placements; there is a symmetry among their charts, and that is why they are born into the same family. In that case the Sun was badly placed in all four charts, so the East-facing house harmed the whole family.

If one family member has a planet exalted and another has it debilitated, should that planet's items be kept in the interior?

Decide room by room. In your own bedroom use the materials of your exalted planet and not of your debilitated one; your daughter's bedroom is designed from her kundli. The house facing and common areas such as the drawing room and kitchen are decided from the grih swami's kundli. Many people make the master bedroom in the South-West by default, which is wrong when Rahu is debilitated: such people suffered there and got very good results after moving to another direction.

If a person sits in the South-East for long periods, will their nature change?

Yes. Sitting a lot in the South-East, the fire zone, increases aggressiveness and irritation.

A couple sleeps in the SW; one has an exalted Rahu and the other a debilitated Rahu. Can they sleep there?

Yes. After marriage, as in the hathleva ritual, the planets of one partner overlap the other, and the exalted planet's influence prevails.

What happens if the kitchen is in the North-North-West?

A kitchen in the North-North-West brings quarrels between husband and wife and discord (klesh) in the home; this has been seen in many houses.